If there’s one thing we want our children to learn and embrace, it’s the fact that the world is filled with all sorts of people and there’s no ‘one-size fits all’, especially in a cultural melting pot like Singapore. We want our kids to grow up knowing that in our families, amongst our friends and the people we’ll meet during our lifetime, we are all different, and that love is love. We also think there’s no better way to introduce children to diversity, and encourage empathy and acceptance than by reading a good book and talking about how people experience the world in different ways. Grab some of these meaningful titles from your local bookstore or library for your little bookworms – after all, variety is the spice of life!
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Books about hearing loss, being deaf or visually impaired
The Deaf Musicians, by Pete Seeger and Paul Dubois Jacobs
4-8 years old
Lee plays the piano all snazzy style like plink-a-plink-BOMP-yimbatimba-TANG—zang-zang. But he’s losing his hearing, so he can’t hear his bandmates’ notes. He has to leave the band because “Who will listen to a deaf musician?” A must read-aloud book for kids who will be absolutely jazzed to hear Lee’s new band – The Deaf Musicians.
El Deafo, by Cece Bell
Winner of the Newbery Honor and Eisner Award for Best Publication for Kids in 2015, El Deafo is a graphic novel based on Cece’s own childhood and how her world changes when she loses her hearing. This makes fitting in and making friends all that more difficult, but she discovers her hearing aid is like a superpower: she can hear all the teacher’s secrets. This makes her the superhero El Deafo! Over time, Cece learns how to use her ‘superpowers’ and make friends (and even a sidekick).
The Black Book of Colours, by Menena Cottin
This award-winning, visually stunning and tactile book is great for sighted children to get a better idea of how visually impaired children might ‘see’ colours. With pitch black pages, textured images and braille, parents can read aloud the story and let children rely on sound and touch for a more immersive experience.
The Sound of Colors, by Jimmy Liao
One day, a girl decides to go on a journey on the underground train to reach the place with colours. Jimmy masterfully draws you into the worlds he creates to show us just how colourful life can be… even when you cannot see.
What Color Is the Wind? by Anne Herbauts
The blind little giant wants to know “What Color Is the Wind?” and asks all the creatures he meets. Illustrated using a variety of different methods like die-cut, gloss and embossing, this book is an absolute treat for the senses. Its poetic prose is a great intro to metaphors, allowing kids to visualise (with or without visuals) what colour the wind might be.
Accepting physical differences
Susan Laughs, by Jean Willis
Susan does a lot of things. She’s good and bad, she’s happy and sad. Any kid would be up for a good rhyme of all the things Susan can do. There’s a twist at the end, though: Susan also uses a wheelchair.
Don’t Be Sorry, Dad, by Nari Hong
Parental guilt hits hard when we can’t do all the things we think we should be doing for our kids, but they understand. “Don’t be sorry, Dad,” a young Nari says, reminding her father that they do plenty of things together and she’s perfectly happy as long as she’s with him.
Seal Surfer, by Michael Foreman
Ben and his grandpa visit the seals every season. They live by the beach under a cliff but that doesn’t stop Ben from going to see them. Through all four seasons, Ben and his grandpa visit the seals, feeding them fish and playing them music, even surfing with them – lucky! Other than Ben’s use of a wheelchair, Seal Surfer explores themes of life and death through seals.
Wonder, by R.J. Palacio
At first glance, Wonder is all about Auggie Pullman, a kid with craniofacial anomalies, starting school for the first time… but as you get deeper into it, it’s about the world in which Auggie tries to find his place, and those who try to coexist with him. It’s not always easy being friends with people who are different, but that doesn’t make it any less worth it. (P.S. Don’t forget to catch the upcoming movie, starring the fantastic Julia Roberts as the supportive mum we’ve all dreamed of.)
Palacio has written a picture book, We’re all Wonders, for four to eight year old readers. Step into Auggie’s world and you’ll see we’re not as different as we might seem because we are all wonders!
Life with autism and neurodiversity
We’ll Paint the Octopus Red, by Stephanie Stuve-Bodeen
A new addition to the family tends to make kids anxious, but when Isaac is born, Emma is told her little brother has Down Syndrome and she is properly worried: “He won’t be able to eat fruit snacks? Or go to Africa? Or paint the octopus red?” He will, her dad says, as long as they’re patient and help him. Guaranteed to give you warm fuzzies because of the warmth, love and support of a family ready to welcome a new baby home.
My Name is Nadia. I have Autism, by Huda Patel and Evelyn Ghozalli
Nadia is the most charming little eight-year-old. She’s just like any other eight-year-old, except she also has autism. Written in both English and Malay, My Name is Nadia is an educational and enjoyable read for both children and adults.
Why Johnny Doesn’t Flap: NT is OK! by Clay Morton and Gail Morton
Neurotypical (NT) children who don’t have autism are different. Johnny, for example, doesn’t arrive on time, has absolutely no routine and speaks in idioms that make no sense. Bonkers! But it’s still great to be friends and play games with him, so everything is A-OK! A great way to teach acceptance from a different perspective.
The Reason I Jump by Naoki Higashida – 8–12 years
The Reason I Jump is the autobiography of 13 year old Japanese boy, Naoki, who is severely autistic and non-verbal. Through a series of questions and answers, Naoki reveals the secret goings-on inside his mind. This touching account helps us understand the struggles and coping mechanisms of people with autism, and it’s a beautiful read. Why is it that he jumps? Naoki will explain.
LGBT: love is love, and we are who we are
And Tango Makes Three, by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell
With so much controversy surrounding this book, we’re surprised it isn’t on this list. We think it’s a fantastic book about adoption and gay parents. Based on the true story of two male penguins in New York’s Central Park Zoo, And Tango Makes Three teaches us that love truly has no bounds.
Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress, by Christine Baldacchino
Morris likes singing, painting, doing puzzles and wearing a tangerine dress that reminds him of tigers and his mother’s hair. He also wants to go to space, but the other boys say astronauts don’t wear tangerine dresses…Well! He’ll just make his own space adventure with space elephants, and in his space adventure, astronauts can definitely wear dresses.
I am Jazz by Jessica Herthel
Based on the childhood experiences of Jazz Jennings, an LGBT rights advocate, I am Jazz is about a girl born with a boy’s body. She loves the colour pink, princess dresses and mermaids. At first no one understands and people tell her that she should dress and act like a boy, but eventually her family comes to accept her. Jazz continues to inspire us to be who we are and not what other people tell us we should be.
The Different Dragon, by Jennifer Bryan
A little boy helps his Go Ma tell a bedtime story, interjecting with words that change a scary fire-breathing dragon to a… different dragon. Maybe a dragon who is secretly lonely and just needs friends.
10,000 Dresses, by Marcus Ewert
Like something straight out of a fairy tale, Bailey dreams of a staircase with a dress on every step – 10,000 to be exact, made of fantastic materials like diamonds, flowers and even windows! But every time she tells someone about her dream dresses, they say, “You’re a boy! Boys don’t wear dresses!” There is no fairy tale ending for Bailey, but it does end with acceptance.
Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda, by Becky Albertalli
Sometimes, kids are fine being teens, not coming out of the closet, and flirting with cute boys (well, one boy) on the internet. But when someone blackmails Simon Spier, threatening to out him and ruin his life, Simon’s got to step up to the challenge or risk losing everything. What homosexual agenda? Try the Homo Sapiens Agenda. Mind the swearing and general teen angst!
Ethnic diversity, blended families and just being different
Happy in Our Skin by Fran Manushkin
Happy in Our Skin takes the cake for diversity. It’s a simple but brilliant introduction to racial diversity, pointing out commonalities and celebrating differences. The illustrations and text cover a kaleidoscope of terms that are great talking points for what skin is and why it comes in different colours.
The Name Jar by Yangsook Choi
Unhei’s (Yoon-hey) starting school but she’s afraid to tell people her Korean name because no one will know how to pronounce it. In a show of support, her classmates get her a jar that they fill with names for her. Can she find a name better than her own? The Name Jar is a reminder to embrace our heritage and we shouldn’t feel the need to compromise our identity, no matter what.
Who’s In My Family? All About Our Families, by Robie H. Harris
What is a family? All families do things together like eat or go to the zoo or the park, but all families are different too. We think this is a great search and find book for the kids – get them to spot the differences between families like size, siblings, pets, hair, skin and eye colour! But most of all, no matter who’s in them, all families love each other very, very much.
The Boy in the Whale Suit, by Marie Toh
Adapted from the short film by local artist Marie Toh, Kai goes practically unnoticed by everyone despite his conspicuous marine-themed outerwear. Tackling themes of loneliness, being different and fitting in, the world according to Kai is perhaps not as complicated as we think it is.
The Trouble with Babies, by Martha Freeman
Holly, the new kid on the block, is just trying to make friends but her neighbours have troubles of their own. Annie is trying to adjust to her new baby sister, Laura, while Xavier, her neighbour, tries to impress Annie by inventing a ‘de-yuckifiction machine’ to de-yuckify Laura. At the heart of this book is friendship and coexisting with blended families of different races, religions and sexualities.
Jane, the Fox, and Me, by Fanny Britt
This book addresses the harsh side of being different. How mean can kids be? Hélène knows. Her once-friends now spread horrible rumours about her, even going so far as to write them on bathroom walls. Even on the school’s nature camp, she is ostracised, an outcast. She has one solace – Charlotte Bronte’s Jane Eyre. But even Jane cannot save her diminishing self-esteem and it takes the help of some unexpected people for her to make it on her own.
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